The modern family has many struggles, and the techniques and methods of traditional family counseling often do not work to promote growth. At The Lighthouse, we know that counseling needs to change to cater for dynamic family structures. Beyond just needing a dual household income to survive financially in these times, families are struggling with the multiple dynamics occurring in today’s American family. Blended families have become the major family structure in this country and children often have to adapt to multiple households and different parenting styles. Grandparents can also add stress within a family especially if they are struggling with long term care concerns. To complicate matters, kids are also under more pressure to succeed than they ever have been in the past.
As our society recognizes the difficult challenges that children face, disorders such as anxiety, depression, ADHD, bipolar and spectrum disorders are being more frequently diagnosed, making it ever more difficult for parents to support their families through everyday life.
At The Lighthouse, we strive to deliver the most robust counseling servicesthat assist children and families through the struggles that they face. It is often said that “it takes a village” when it comes to successfully raising a family, and we pride ourselves on being the “village” of support that your family requires to be happy and healthy in your connections to each other.
Our model, called Family Synergy Therapy (FST), is based upon our principle and guiding philosophy that each family member works with their own counselor. Our model was developed and extended from our founders Dr. Ray and Jean Kadkhodaian’s couples synergy model which promotes the presence of an advocate for each member of the family or relationship to create a safe environment through which to share experiences, perspectives and feelings without the risk of judgment. In addition, we use structured work involving all family members with their own therapists in order to challenge disruptive dynamics within the family and to develop better function within the family unit. We combine these techniques with a wealth of new skills integration and education to support ongoing harmony within the family.
Families that we have helped have expressed their gratitude for the positive changes that have transformed their homes into more peaceful environments with healthy communication, less conflict, more structure and boundaries that respect each member of the family. Our goal will always remain the same, and that is to help you and your family create happy, healthy and loving relationships with one another.
We pride ourselves on helping today’s families become the strongest they can be by helping each family member develop their own coping skills. Family members may struggle with their own mental health issues and behavioral issues that create difficulties in the lives of everyone in the family unit. Some issues our family-focused counseling services help individuals work through include:
ILLINOIS:
847-253-9769 3205 N Wilke Rd, Suite #112
Arlington Heights, IL 60004
COLORADO:
800-328-2362
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The Complex we are located in is called Arlington Ridge. Once you enter the complex, proceed to the building labeled 3205. You may enter the building through Door C. Once entering the building, proceed down the hall to Suite 112. Please call if you have any questions.